The world turns and evolution is in transition, pushing us forward for a better way of living and enhanced development. This is not a new concept, we have been on this path since the mid 1990’s but things are definitely accelerating and there is an urgency in the air.
For generations we have been realizing we are more than just ‘the physical’. The Western world is embracing Eastern philosophies and yoga, meditation, food awareness and the more spiritual lifestyle has become a way of life for millions of people.
Unfortunately, despite our awareness of the need for the ‘great push’ instigate change for the better, so many are realizing that although we can ‘talk the talk’, in reality not much has changed in our lives.
We need more than yoga and a few ‘Oms’ to remove the deep imprints inherited and carried forward from past life traumas. As we come into life, we bring adverse events with us to ‘live out’ again in the present-day life script. Additionally, we have transference from lineage and culture that also leave their imprint of living, conditioning and a treadmill to live to greater proportions than we logically appreciate creating a cocktail of past and present-day life dogmas, mirroring once again our previous experiences of life.
We don’t pour new wine into old bottles due to contamination, but we do manage to contaminate ourselves in life.
This adds to the cocktail of adverse living, not wanting to feel, we ‘numb out’. In ‘fight or flight’ situations we become numb and freeze from the trauma received. When we freeze, we shut down to feeling, in many cases, leaving the body for safety.
People who have been raped will often say they were not there when the event took place, leaving the body automatically, looking down on the happening. Unfortunately, it does not mean we are not producing biological reactions to trauma. Automatically, chemical reactions will take place and bombard physical and energetics accordingly. Feeling or not feeling the action and reaction will happen just the same, at the time of trauma flooding the body with stress hormones.
When unhappy, in trauma or shock we feel uncomfortable or unsafe, and look for ways to remove or separate from our feelings. This is an automatic safety mechanism and can include ‘leaving’ the body – when this happens, the physical and energetics struggle with life. Habits or degrees of a lack of presence are formed when we are not ‘grounded’, our systems don’t work as well when we are not ‘present’. We struggle to live from a foggy brain, we lose energy, feel fatigued and fluctuate in our ability to remember. Our memory becomes swiss cheese losing whole swaths of events and information – knowledge is not stored as we find it challenging to concentrate. Knowledge lost, we forget easily, and we do not grow in evolution. Essentially, we become a faded aspect, a ‘Shell of Soul’, overwhelmed with life, any human feeling is cold and detached when not grounded.
When I ground people and ‘reconnect’ them, they start to feel warmth again, their body heats up as they come back to the ‘self’. They begin realigning more of themselves to live life in the present.
Not being ‘in the body’ can cause people to lose businesses and even have car accidents – I have witnessed it myself. They look like there is’ no-one home’ – they are sometimes called ‘space cadets’ – they are just floating in the ether and astral planes and aren’t able to find their way back. It is a big problem in the spiritual journey; Hilarion channelled in 2008, people are living in La, La land… life passes them by.
I have had several clients whose children copy and mirror their parents in this way too. Babies and toddlers become frantic when mum or dad are not present. Their bodies may be present but not their ‘essence’. The child feels their absence, there is no-one around to hear their cries of supervise them. Numbed out from life and neglect, the children follow suit – what a world we are creating. Another example of individuals’ ‘zoning out’ is their unhealthy relationships with phones and the internet – their attention is focused 1000% and leaves them ungrounded and not present.
People look for escape when unhappy and turn to drugs, drink, food and other addictions. Iowaska is another mythical substance that has been championed to help us to leave our bodies and enhance our spiritual visions. This of course is a myth; this terror and gut-wrenching substance is harmful to both body and mind. Hallucinogenic drugs can be a harmful substance – I have personally found elements still lurking in clients’ brain causing numbness, cognitive abnormalities, dysfunctional behaviour and actions years after their experience with them. The fear of feeling has been numbed by the substance, but the damage goes on and on…
At this critical tim of evolution, we are NOW being asked to be aware of self, to take control and responsibility of self. Logic tells us we cannot evolve if no one here to do so.
When individuals start to come back into their bodies, they are angry and upset and don’t understand why!
All of their adverse experiences have been logged, still there to be dealt with, even though the essence of that person has not been ‘at home’! They have to deal with the reality of the situation and meditation alone won’t help them to do it. It is a far greater issue – inherently logged biologically and subconsciously. It needs a therapy that can deal with the unknown and the hidden with behaviour to match. Unknown by the individual but their living reality.
In some cases, ungroundedness has been passed down as a way of living, it can come from ‘mirroring’ those around us and from our conditioning. Past life abilities lost through ungroundedness and lack of presence. Ground-hog -day exists at home or playing away.
In the 1970s there was an American study that looked at adverse events in our life. They focused on traumatic events for children proposing a list of events that would and could affect a child.
The study focused on adverse events on children proving they are biologically affected by trauma and stress and in later life experience disorders and diseases such as cancer, inflammatory diseases, diabetes and heart issues. Of course, adverse events happen at all ages, therefore we can add trauma and compound adverse events and hormonal reactions.
Suggested events that cause children adverse trauma from A.C.E. study:
- Divorce or separation of parents
- Domestic Violence
- Death of a parent
Dissolve and Resolve Emotions therapy (D.A.R.E) conclude with these findings and have a therapy that can help to eliminate the debilitating effects of such traumas. We can bring about ‘clearing’ in our workshops and sessions.
Don’t wait for things to get worse. read more about grounding and the A.C.E study in Joy Wisdom’s Mirror Image book.
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